We being humans are too human enough to realize what we need the most. No its not appreciation and greatest deeds, it is self acknowledgment. Only if you’re stronger enough to stand by self, you’d be fearless of the ruggedness of the dreadful reality and make it the most beautiful presence for yourself.
Lets be just be a little informal today! Let’s just be non-chalant enough that we can speak to each other without the fear of being judged. Let us on our part stop judging, let’s face it none of us know what the other person is going through, we might just end up breaking them. Yes, I realise that sometimes some people create a negitive vibe unintentionally (or intentionally) and it’s really hard to stay in such aura of the being. What would we rather do? Most of us ponder at “You know we should help them, they’re already through a mess and are waiting desperately for help… blah blah blah”, and trust me that is some real good deed but while you’re at it I’d really like you to remember ‘You can make a horse come to the river, but cannot make it drink the water’ .
We’ve always encountered one such person who despite you’re efforts is still lingering adamant at the thought that they’re the worst and all sorts of such thinking which you’re constanly trying to woo them away from, but it isn’t hard for you to find that they never want to leave their zone of resentment, and guess what if I really am not wrong you’d find your self soon pondering over the same negitivity too. So here let me ask you something, do you think those good deed’s you’re doing is actually worth? ‘coz lets face it, in the process of trying to bring someone up you’ve stooped too low to get help yourself! Yes, not everyone is same, few people desperately do need help and there is professional help out there, so in such case of healing your being by them would definately help them, no doubt. But there’s another set which is just a succulent for attention that they’d disrespect your state of being to over rule their thought and boom! you’re soon doubting your self worth. Do you really REALLY think that it’s worth?
I would just advice that “Know when to leave, only if you save yourself can you save others”. It takes a while to realize but what worth is it when you cant even stand up for your self? I dont know who needs to hear this but “You’re hella your own person, nothing is more important than you standing up for yourself”.