I was just watching the movie another day and I could not help but think what exactly is it to fall in love..I mean it is definitely not the wind blowing and of course not feeling ata you are literally soaking up in the sky..is it? So you know just out of curiosity I end up asking my friend and honestly regret it.. she ended up thinking that I found someone . well it took me quite of trying to make her understand and actually show the evidence to that I was just curious… Well she had been in love for almost five years I thought who else would it be better to ask. It was definitely not the answer I was expecting her to answer. She said in her case it wasn’t at first sight rather it is a slow and gradual. And it is definitely not as they show in movies whether it is all cute lovey dovey and understanding all at once, it took a few years, in fact even right now she is just getting to know him a bit by bit, and she says that is the most amazing part. She says it is amusing how she can find out about the little thing that no one else knew and that she is able to view it. She said that things when nasty they fought bad and even ended up not talking for quite a time, but that only increase the curiosity of what the other person was thinking. She says that they still fight every third day,and it only symbolises how strong the bond is growing because they are speaking to each other and that they are now closer if more than ever.
Well the most interesting fact that really struck me of what she said is that “it is not that you just get attracted and live happily ever after, it is what comes afterwards that strengthen’s your bond.”
Honestly never believed in happily ever after stories but hers gives a sense of serene feeling.